Showing posts with label stationery. Show all posts
Showing posts with label stationery. Show all posts

Monday, September 6, 2010

response tallies



We're still waiting to hear back from about 40 people. Seriously? I understand the few friends who've fessed up to loosing/forgetting to mail in their responses, but what about the other 35 of you? Do you have a new baby or kitty to distract you too?

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

I don't know my own address

Remember how I was freaking out because I hadn't gotten the invitation that I'd mailed to myself? Yeah, that's because I forgot to put our apartment number on it and it it was returned to my parents' house as undeliverable. I'm awesome, no?

But, look how pretty my handwriting is! It took me 162 envelopes to address 117 invitations. I have only 8 left!

Also, please note the awesome stamp. Only a handful of people appear to have noticed it :( But my little brother Daniel commented on liking the "font" I used to address his invitation. Silly brother, that's no font, that's D'Nelion handwriting, a la 3rd grade writing sample! I just wish my lines were more straight and that my numbers were fancier looking. Oh well. All invitations should be delivered at this point, and if not, my dad should see more in the mailbox at home in the next few days.

Saturday, June 19, 2010

invitations II

Oh boy. Invitations have caused much drama. We decided to stick with the original modestly priced ones, from weddingpaperdivas.com. I ordered a sample for $1, and they invitations were great, but I decided that the envelopes aren't opaque enough. This sent me on a wild goose chase all over creation for better envelopes, but I ended up back where I started, but with inner envelopes!

[caption id="" align="aligncenter" width="420" caption="Pure Style, weddingpaperdivas.com"][/caption]

Inner envelopes, and a return address embosser, in the same font as the invitation! These invitations are turning out fancier than I'd intended, but Ben thinks they're perfect because they convey the tone of our wedding well: modern/not casual/not fancy. Sweet. Happy Ben = happy Deena!

My parents actually already have a hand held embosser with return address plates (it came with the house), but for some reason it was printed upside down. My dad mailed it to me because I thought it would be useful, but the only thing it's good for is stamping book pages or making your own stationery because you have to stamp from the top to get it to print right side up. Envelope flaps need to be stamped from the bottom, or the text will come out upside down!

While I was in a stationary state of mind tonight (and ordering the embosser plates), we also ordered a 100 sheets packet of cover paper for wedding programs, matching escort cards, ribbon (for binding the programs), and my bouquet. I'm going to be walked down the isle by both parents, and will be holding a family Tanakh (with all of my maternal family's births, deaths, weddings, etc.) so I'm not going to have flowers, but I figured I need something to keep my hands busy during photographs and paper is much more me than flowers. As an added bonus, I know I'm not allergic to PAPER mini magnolias!

[caption id="" align="aligncenter" width="350" caption="Mini Magnolia Flower Kit, paper-source.com"][/caption]

Sunday, June 13, 2010

nailing down the details

The other day was our -4 month anniversary, meaning we now have fewer than 4 months before the wedding! Ack! Actually, I'm really not stressed. We have our meeting with the florists tomorrow, and will hopefully nail down what kind of decor we're going for. Personally, I'm torn between these two looks (click on them for sources):

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[caption id="attachment_767" align="aligncenter" width="240" caption="Martha Stewart - pine bough in a wide vase"][/caption]

Ignoring the fact that I'm lost and indecisive when it comes to how I want the ballroom to look, we're settled on the ceremony and it's back-up plan (white chairs on the lawn -weather permitting, a white chuppah with the quilt my mom is working on basted into the chuppah, fencing to block out the traffic, and a DJ to mic the whole thing). We've also decided --finally-- on a ketubah and on wedding invitations as well, though we still have to finalize our order for both of those things.

The only major thing left on the list is to hire a DJ! I suppose we have to address and mail the invitations, have our tasting at the hotel, and finalize the menu, and continue planning the ceremony with Rabbi Marc, but none of those things stress me out, they just need to be done in a timely manner.

Oh, and sign up for pre marital counseling. Rabbi Marc strongly suggests that we meet with someone at least twice to do I don't know what. Last night, we read the first two chapters of Meeting at the Well: A Jewish  Spiritual Guide to Being Engaged and didn't find it particularly helpful. I think we're being honest with ourselves and each other. We both went through our "OMG, I'm going to marry this person" freakout before we decided to make our intention to marry one another official by becoming engaged.

Honestly, wedding planning is much more under control than I expected them to be at this point. The check list of things to do is not very long, and our wedding is coming up! It's so weird to think that after almost 2 years of engagement that we'll be mailing out invitations in 6 weeks. Kinda surreal.

Saturday, June 5, 2010

benchers AKA after meal prayer books

Hopefully no one has any objection to the regular blue ones that you'd typically see in the box-o-benchers at the synagogue, only new and with our bookplate!

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Sunday, May 2, 2010

invitations

Ugh. That's the best thing I have to say about them. There are 3 that we're debating. All have their merits and their faults (ok, their faults are mostly price). Here are the contenders:

most affordable option - Total internet based company, no samples are available in the font/ink color we want to use. Also, to get our names in Hebrew, we have to send them exactly what we want (not a problem) as a vector graphic and let their graphics people place it for us. We'll get a PDF proof before the presses are run.

[caption id="" align="aligncenter" width="252" caption="Weddingpaperdivas.com - Pure Style : Navy"][/caption]

middle priced option - Supports a local business to Ben's parents (in Brookline), but I'd have to order the accent ribbon online and then mail it to the invitation people because neither of us like Apple Green (read neon green) as an accent color. Mossy/olive greens are much preferable. The shop is more than willing to work with us and is very comfortable with Hebrew (it's a Judaica shop).

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expensive option - Letter press (so pretty) with a Flatirons graphic. Totally awesome, 100% customizable, and made by a local artist. We can get exactly what we want, we just have to be willing to pay for it....

[caption id="" align="aligncenter" width="300" caption="Smokeproof Press - JLB custom invitation"][/caption]

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

as if it weren't official already

All of our save the date magnets (expect for a few of Ben's friends who have no decorum) have been mailed!

Yey!

We ordered these a while back, from poseprints.com, and they were moving their office at the time. Things got complicated because I accidently ordered too few and tried via voice mail to change my order (I refuse to email my credit card info). About a month after our initial order we got the increased order in the mail at no extra charge! (I called to check on this, since it was totally my fault that I hadn't ordered enough and Jen, the owner, explained that their usual turnaround was 7-10 days and that she was comping us the extra 25 magnets because we got lost in the move.)

They came with envelopes (linen-y feeling, and not thick enough to not been seen though) and little plastic sleeves and the magnets themselves are nice and thick and glossy and rounded on the edges like they were made of enameled. Definitely worth the sale price we'd paid for them. If there were actual product photos on the site, I might even go so far as to say that they're worth the full price, but why bother when we were able to get 50% off? I'd take a picture of the one on our fridge, but there's a cute/funny/naughty magnetic poem next to it and I don't want to disturb the tableau.

[caption id="attachment_549" align="aligncenter" width="521" caption="the blip on Ben's cheek is gone in the final copy"][/caption]

That's the true size. This is the proof and I commented on the response form that there was a white blip on Ben's inside cheek, they got back to me right away that they weren't sure what that was but that it would be gone in the final product (it was).

Hand addressing them was a fun adventure too. I used a green ballpoint pen and just started working my way down the list while the dude tried to figure out how to print the return address on the little envelops and how to format the printer. We got done at about the same time since he could only feed 5 or so at a time and kept taking breaks to make dinner while I addressed away.

Anyway, they've been mailed to family and out of town friends, handed out to local friends, and we're waiting to distribute a few more by hand (Ben can't seem to wrangle the last few addresses) at our engagement/tea party at his parents' house in 2 weeks. I would have saved postage and handed out more, but my aunts wanted to host a bridal shower which made me want to meet his family friends more (thus the tea party) and I wanted the magnets in the mail before people got invited to a party/shower and didn't actually know when the wedding is scheduled for.

Oh, and one last thing, the envelope is standard size and the magnet isn't a bump. I tried going to the neighborhood post office and the jerk behind the counter gave an envelope a eyeball and hefted it and told me that it was undersized and too thick and would need extra postage. I had 105 US and 3 international to mail, I was not about to pay $0.64 for domestic mailings and who knows how much for international. I calmly walked out and drove to CU's off-campus book store where I there's a postal annex (it's also just over a mile closer than going all the way downtown). I told the woman behind the counter what had happened at the last post office so she weighed, measured, and stuck the envelope through a slotted plastic thingy. It passed all the tests of being a normal, mailable envelope and she then handed me a bucket of $0.44 stamps to pick through and helped another customer. WOW! Even though I have to drive past the local post office and then another 2 miles and look for parking when I get there, when it comes time to mail anything ever again, I'm going to the bookstore annex so that I can get some decent customer service! The local post office is now only good for picking up oversized packages, IMHO.

wow, people sure spend money on weird stuff

Like fancy stamps! Wow. Zazzle is a cool service that lets you print your own stamps. That's nifty, right? To see your own artwork on stamps? Yes, but there's over a 100% markup for it! It's about $20 for a sheet of 20, $0.44 stamps. Yes, you read that right, more than twice what the stamps are worth as postage. Cool stamps are just not worth paying almost 2/3 more than the postage value of the stamp. We're going to stick with standard USPS stamps for our invitations (when we get around to ordering, printing, and mailing them this summer). Just that I'd share this PSA.



BTW, where is our invitation to DJ and Jeanine's wedding? It's 7 weeks away and I'm not about to make formal plans to go until I get an invitation.... They asked for our address and we talked about how excited we were to come when they visited in October. My parents haven't gotten their invitation yet either, so I don't think we're no longer invited. Oh well. We'll just keep their wedding date on the calendar and keep any travel plans on hold until we get the GO signal via mail. [Hopefully this won't be a concern for our wedding since we sent out save the date magnets and will be mailing the invitations 9 weeks out. 3 weeks is long enough to respond, right? That gives us 6 weeks of working with actual attendance numbers to make plans here.]

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

letterpress is so fancy

I'm not sure that Ben and I are letterpress kinda people. To me letterpress wedding invitations are generally super formal, which we're not. But, if we won a FREE letter pressing it from iDiY.com, I would be more than willing to a) make our own invites and b) be able to make not formal looking letterpress invites.


http://www.i-do-it-yourself.com/2009/11/the-l-letterpress-tool-kit-giveaway/